Monday, July 25, 2011

settingPRIORITIES

"Karissa,pag di ka busy pasok ka sa office,kakausapin kita."A haughty line which only means one thing,YOU DID SOMETHING WRONG,again!Amidst the toxic duty this morning I bravely faced her and asked,bakit po miss?"

This is all about my saturday issue.When I didn't go to work because mark met an accident.Even if I called to inform, still I am seemingly effortless afterall.I decided that morning not to go for work to assist him in the hospital.Its past two when we arrived home and raining heavily outside.Im in makati,and will travel to sta.mesa.I called again if its ok to exchange duty with gemma.i thought it was all well,hindi pala. :(  She expressed hers a I expressed my side.

I understand.This is all about setting priorities.But between work and him in that situation,I will choose to be with him,NO DOUBT!!I choose staying with him rather than soaking myself to work(doing it almost 6days a week)and what is one day di ba?And it's all-wrong to her eyes!I give a DAMN this time..During my birthday,anniversary..I dont request any special offs ,but with this,they don't even understand me."Boyfriend mo palang siya.Buti sana kung critical siya eh sabi mo galos lang namn pala."Precisely,but i consider a loved one as part of my family..and will Never exchange the sake of my family for work.NEVER! I am not you,you were not me.I respect you.But still,im just an unreasonable amateur in the field.Add irresponsible if you want.I may not be able to change the rule, but i wont let that rule change my values either. I own my decisions because before i say a No or a yes,i think not just twice.Just as you did but still,we were not exactly alike and im less than perfect.Anyway,You can never please evrybody.Its just a waste of time.I remeber a friend once advised me,Kung di mo alam susundin mo,follow your heart but take your mind with it.Choose whatever will make you happy. I DID.


On the other  hand,I appreciate the advices.When i say,Thank you miss,naapreciate ko po.I mean it.
I really appreciate this lines.


*Be strong karissa.
*Wag mong kalimutang magdasal.baka nakakalimot kayo.
*Presence of mind.Hindi mo pwedeng paghaluin ang trabaho tsaka ang emotions mo.Igather mo muna yang self mo bago ka go ulit."
*Nireready ka lang ni lord sa mas malalaking challenges along your way!
*Ibenta nyo nalang yung motor.
*Ikumusta moko kay mark.sabihin mo magpagaling sya.

I smiled.I understand her point.She understands me.I appreciate.
You made my day,miss!Mixed up of feelings!

I remember this story which is quite my guiding principle in life.:))



Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air.

You name them--work, family, health, friends, and spirit, and you're keeping all of these in the air.

You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back.

But the other four balls--family, health, friends and spirit are made of glass. If you drop one of these, they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for balance in your life
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"You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back."
:)

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